Relationship and Divorce Coach

Hello. I’m Shandy.

I am the Divorce Attorney that Believes in Relationships.

Relationships are not only essential to the human experience, they are the foundation for success in every area of our lives. I am a certified life coach specializing is relationships and divorce coaching. I help women through group coaching and online course

I have been a practicing lawyer for over 18 years and specializing in divorce and family law since 2008. I am now a certified life coach and specializing in relationship and divorce coaching.

Divorce affects everyone involved— especially women. An estimated 15 to 20 million women in the U.S. are divorced or separated, and this number grows every year. I have designed an online course combined with theraputic group coaching in a private community to help women win after divorce.

In my divorce practice, I have been privileged to get an inside view into hundreds of clients’ homes and marriages. I’ve learned about their relationships and family dynamics. I’ve heard about their grievances, their regrets, the reasons for their trade-offs in life and marriage, stories about time wasted, dreams and passions that get suffocated. As a life coach I am able to use my experience and with the help of my online course teach women how to move on after divorce.

Somewhere along the way, people get lost, unhappy, and are unfulfilled. Life events continue to unfold, and divorce happens… but it doesn’t have to take your happiness with it . My online course combined with my group coaching sessions will help women get unstuck.

Life is too short. Start living with purpose

After a family tragedy in 2019, I felt compelled to help the women that I serve in a different way. My younger sister was tragically murdered by her ex-boyfriend. In an instant, my world shifted. The finality of her death weighed on me daily. I struggled when I went back to work. The fighting seemed so trivial.

Divorce brings on a myriad of emotions that are difficult to navigate: confusion, anger, fear, shame, and regret are just a few. The reactivity is understandable. But I knew there was a better way.

I transitioned into coaching to empower and motivate women.

I wanted to help my clients let go of the fear holding them back and find the confidence to live intentionally and with purpose. Life is, after all, too short to live by default.

What I Believe

Many people believe the key to moving on is time. But waiting on time implies that you cannot do anything about your situation – and that is simply not true.

The key to moving is not time. The key to moving on from divorce is managing your thoughts about it.

I'm here to help you find yourself after divorce

From earning my Bachelor of Science degree in Psychology in 1999 and my Life Coach Certification from the Life Coach School in 2020, my interest has always been in learning about and empowering the mind.

What i do

Through my Post-Divorce Process, I help you gain the clarity you need so you can release limiting beliefs that are holding you back so you can unleash your potential.

I AM A MOM of two amazing children and four incredible step children that I love as my own. I coach and I run my law practice.I love all things that go along with family and relationships and enjoy reading, thinking, and roller skating to disco.